Friday, 3 December 2010

KEEP MOVING FORWARD

A friend on Facebook shared this on Tyler Perry's page and it so touched me i thought to share.i used a picture i photographed at my living quarter in Kaduna Nigeria.It spelt tranquility and reflects beauty and calm.Enjoy and let your faith leap afresh!.......

:One day a young lady was driving along with her father. They came upon a storm. The young lady asked her father what should she do, he said "keep driving".

Cars began to pull over to the side, the storm was getting worse. What should I do the young lady asked,
"keep driving" her father replied.

On up a few feet she noticed eighteen wheelers were pulling over also. She told her dad, I must pull over I can barely see ahead. It is terrible out here everyone is pulling over. Her father told her not to
give up just keep driving.

Now the storm was terrible but she never stopped driving and soon she could see a little clearer. After a couple of miles she was on dry land and the sun was out.

Her father said now pull over and get out. She said "but why now?" He said "get out look back, at all the people that gave up and is still in the storm".

You never gave up and now your storm is over.


I thought this was a testimony for anyone of you that is going through something.

Just because everyone else, even the ones that appear to be the largest and strongest, gives up, you don't have to. If you keep going on up ahead, your storm will soon be over and the sun will shine upon your face again.

Sunday, 21 November 2010

360 DEGREE AND THE G-FACTOR

LIFE IS A 360 DEGREE STUFF.IT'S ALWAYS A CYCLE SOME WAY OR ANOTHER.IF IT IS NOT A DAY DAY COMPLETING NIGHT AND  DAY,IT WOULD BE A YEAR  COMPLETING A 365 DAYS CYCLE.IF ITS IS NOT THAT,IT COULD BE  A MAN OR WOMAN GOING FROM  CHILDHOOD TO AN ADULT AND NOW COMPLETING THE DOWNTREND OF REVERTING TO CHILDLIKE WAYS IN THE NAME OF OLD AGE.


ITS A 360 DEGREE STUFF THAT BECOMES MORE INTERESTING IF YOU HAVE FOUND  THE FACTOR THAT MAKES IT ALL KEEP FROM BEING A LONELY EXPERIENCE WITH LOTS OF QUESTIONS AND SOMETIMES, NIGHTS OF 
WAKING UP AND NOT KNOWING WHAT TO DO WITH THE 'YOU' THAT YOU HAVE ON YOUR HANDS AT THAT TIME.


IN A WAY,HUMANS HAVE FOUND  FULFILLMENT IN THE KNOWLEDGE OF THE HIGHER POWER IN THE MIDST OF IT ALL.IN MORE WAYS THAN ONE,THE CONCEPT OF THE G-FACTOR(GOD FACTOR) REMAINS A  MYSTERY THAT MOST CAN NOT ELUDE.NO ONE  PERSON HAS PUT TO REST THE NATURAL GRAVITATION  TO BELIEVE IN THE SUPERNATURAL AND GETTING ATTUNED TO THE POWER THAT SURGES FROM WITHIN.


EVEN THOSE WHO COINED THE WORD 'ATHEISM'  BELIEVE STRONGLY IN THEIR DISBELIEF OF  THE EXISTENCE OF A 'god' OR 'gods',YET USING THE 'NOUN FORM' ,'ATHEIST' TO EMPOWER THE 'GOD' WITHIN THEMSELVES...IN THIS MANNER,THEY BELIEVE IN 'THEMSELVES' AND THEIR CAPABILITIES  AND GIVE POWER TO THE G-FACTOR WITHOUT GIVING VERBAL CREDIT TO HIM.


TRUTH BE TOLD,EVEN WHEN WE DON'T SEE GOD,OUR NATURAL DESIRES TO BELIEVE IN A FORCE THAT SUPERCEDES OUR  CIRCUMSTANCES AND BAD EXPERIENCES CANNOT BE TAKEN AWAY.THIS IS BECAUSE IN THE TALE END, NO MATTER HOW HORRIFYING YOUR EXPERIENCES,YOU JUST  HAVE TO HAVE 'FAITH'.YOU JUST HAVE TO HAVE THAT 'BELIEVE'...IN THE LONG RUN,THAT IS THE ONE THING THAT YOU CAN COUNT ON TO KEEP YOU ON COURSE WHILE THE CLOCK TICKS ITS SECONDS,MINUTES AND HOURS.EVENTUALLY IT BECOMES  DAYS WHICH TURNS TO WEEKS ;ADDS UP TO MONTHS AND GETS TO BE COUNTED AS YEARS.


NOW ,IF YOU HAVE NOTED THE PROJECTION,YOU WILL HAVE NOTICED THAT ALL THE TRENDS ABOVE TOOK A  DIRECTION...IT STARTS FROM ONE POINT,TOWS THROUGH SOME MILE,THEN MAKES A DOWNTREND TOWARDS THE STARTING POINT.



SO YEAH,ITS A 360 DEGREE STUFF AND WHILE YOU ARE AT IT YOU'VE GOT TO REALIZE IT HAS TO BE ONE STEP AT A TIME,ONE MOVE AT A TIME,ONE NIGHT BEFORE THE DAY AND SO ON.ON THE MOTION, JUST REMEMBER TO TAP INTO YOUR SPIRITUAL RESERVE WHEN THE GOING GETS TOUGH AND WHEN YOU CAN'T SEEM TO GET OUT OF THE FEELING OF BEING OUT OF PLACE.IN A WAY,KNOWING HOW TO GET ATTUNED TO YOUR UNDERSTANDING OF GOD  MAKES IT EASIER TO GET ROUND YOUR OWN PERSONAL CYCLES,WITHOUT FEELING 'TOO OVERWHELMED' OR EVEN JUST  'OVERWHELMED'.  BY THE NATURAL UNFAIR FACTORS OF OUR HUMAN EXISTENCE.



MOST PROBABLY,I MAY NOT KNOW WHICH PART OF YOUR CYCLE HAS BEEN DONE ALREADY OR IF YOU HAVE BY NOW,GONE THROUGH THE  180 DEGREE OF YOUR 360 DEGREE.ON ANOTHER SCALE,YOU MIGHT BE ON YOUR 90 DEGREE  BUT I DON'T KNOW IF THAT MATTERS MORE AS MUCH AS BEING "HAPPY" GOING IT AND MAKING SURE NOT TO LET THE PATH YOU TREAD DICTATE YOUR STATE OF MIND WHICH I HAVE FOUND TO BE ONE OF THE GREATEST REWARDS OF OUR LIVING.



IF YOU ASK ME AGAIN,I WOULD SAY THAT THE VERY REWARD THAT WE ACCRUE FROM EVERY COMPLETE SEQUENCE OF CHANGES ASSOCIATED WITH THE  PHENOMENAL EVENTS OF LIFE ARE TIED TO OUR STATES OF MIND.



...THE QUESTION  THEN BECOMES 'WHETHER WE ARE HAPPY OR NOT?'
OWING TO THIS,HOWEVER WAY YOU  CHOOSE TO INDULGE AMIDST THE PHASES OF YOUR LIFE AND THE CHANGING MIDPOINTS OF YOUR CYCLES ;ONLY TRUE "HAPPINESS" CAN GIVE MEANING TO YOUR EXPERIENCES REGARDLESS OF THE DOWNTRENDS.




                 ...IT IS A 360 DEGREE STUFF AND IT MATTERS WHEN YOU'VE 
FOUND YOUR RYTHM!



Wednesday, 3 November 2010

NATURAL MEAL?...WHY THAT 'BUKA' MAY BE BETTER THAN THAT 'FASTFOOD' HANGOUT!

It's meal time and without much ado,everyone would be glad to get into  the nearest  drive way of a stomach affair place.In Nigeria when you consider this option,there are two significant places that jump into your mind:A 'Fast food Hangout'(eatery) or the local 'Buka'.


In  this sense,a 'Fast food hangout' would mean any eatery with the glitz and touch up of exclusive fancy topped with spotlight chairs and perhaps little or more grandeur.On the other hand,the 'Buka' being a term coined from the the street jargon of the  regular Nigerian,would mean an ordinary eating joint that caters to your hunger  concerns without necessarily the 'all-out' effort for too much prettiness.


Now here's the real deal.Chances are that you would naturally want to gravitate to the prettier place of grandeur but you do that the next time,consider  the latest trend in recent times that is beginning to popular among the fancy places.


Have you ever had to take away food and eventually, one way or another had to let it end up in the refrigerator?...if you have,you will have noticed  the unnatural artificial colouring in that food while warming up.
Certainly if you are like me,it will get you wondering what else grossly artificial needed to get in there to get you to buy.


Reading up on food additives,will make you painfully aware of the fact that most of these colourings are't exactly
beneficial to your health.However,with experience,if you have been to the 'Buka' too you will have sen that most of food prepared there are often tasty and straight from the African pot without the business of artificial sprucing up the meal to look good.


This bring me to my second reason or point you have to take note of  while on your  stomach venture...."Preservatives".Preservatives are substances used to preserve food from getting spoilt easily.Hence,if the natural shelf life of a food item is one day,you could still have it another day,even yet another.


Now,this also make me wonder..."why should i preserve  a food to have it another day when i can have a fresh one?"...if the word 'boring' doesn't bear to mind then maybe you are a wee bit carefree about your  dining table adventures.And this is another point that is noticeably different at the  little 'Buka' places where food is made in quantums and gets to finish at the end of a sales day.


While it's easy to gulp down the closest meals ,may be you should start noticing these things at your favourite food places so that you can get the healthiest,freshest and most natural  of food when dining out.It really doesn't take too much to know who offers the most real stuffs,if you care to check out little details.


Since i have come to  know how much i love to have an extension of well prepared home made look-a-likes in food places,the choice to stay stuck to my ground for the closest natural offering has come to stay too.So  if you ask me, i would say:"make it as natural as possible,because the healthier the better".


In the end,it's a choice worth your careful observation.And i guess looking out for the places where chefs stay true to 'healthier' is Best.Your favourite 'Fast food' hangout might be staying true to natural but it is up to you to find out.


When next you get on your scout for the  nearest 'belly filler',if it's not  the case of 'when the desireable is not available,the available becomes desireable',....then you need to take your time and find the real deal.Not the cheaters:whether its the small fancy 'Buka' or the grand Looking 'Fast food' eatery.


                                   ITS YOUR FOOD...ENJOY!

Monday, 1 November 2010

WHY YOU NEED TO KEEP GOOD PEOPLE AROUND YOU!

I KNOW THIS CAN COME OFF AS USUAL,BUT HOW MANY OF US ACTUALLY WATCH TO VERIFY IF WE ARE LANDING THE VERY BEST OF PEOPLE WHILE MAKING FRIENDS?
ITS IRONIC THAT WE WILL READILY WANT TO ADVICE THE CLOSEST YOUNGEST PERSON AROUND US ABOUT THE NEED TO HAVE GOOD FRIENDS ,BUT AS ADULTS WE TEND TO FORGET THE ONE RULE THAT SHOULD SEE US BECOME BETTER PEOPLE.

ITS QUITE A SHORT HAUL FROM BEING AT THE LEAST OF OUR GAMES,.. YOU KNOW?....I SAY THIS BECAUSE 'OUR FRIENDS',WHO ARE REITRATIVELY THE PEOPLE WE HAVE AROUND US CAN HAVE A GREAT DEAL OF EFFECT ON HOW WE TURN OUT.A TRUTH WHICH A LOT   OF US DO NOT WANTTO  THINK TOO MUCH ABOUT SINCE WE ASSUME THAT AS ADULT,WE HAVE  MADE MOST OF THE DECISIONS IN OUR LIVES AND CONTINUE TO MAKE .BUT I TELL YOU...THIS IS JUST  THE "PING POINT"..........YOU ARE STILL VULNERABLE TO PEER PRESSURE NO MATTER YOUR AGE.

OK...IF YOU DISPUTE THIS, TELL ME.."WHY DOES IT MATTER WHEN A CLOSE PAL SAYS SOMETHING ABOUT YOU AND YOU WANT TO REACT TO CORRECT THE IMPRESSION?"

.....BECAUSE THEY MATTER,AND WHAT THEY SAY AND THINK ABOUT YOU IS IMPORTANT TO YOU.SO YOU REALISE  THAT EVEN THEIR IDEALS GETS TO SHAPE YOUR IDEALS TOO.
AND THESE IDEALS ARE WHAT MAKES YOU EVOLVE AND DETERMINE HOW STRONG YOUR CONVICTIONS WILL BE FOR YOU TO SUCCEED.

SO NEXT TIME SOMEONE SAYS THEY WANT TO GET TO KNOW YOU BETTER,THINK TWICE AND VERIFY IF THEY ACTUALLY REPRESENT WH]AT YOU WANT TO BE OR NOT.THIS MIGHT SOUND  IMAGINARILY TACKY  BUT IF YOU THINK OF THE DAMAGE OF ANOTHER  BAD RELATIONSHIP,IT WILL BE WORTH THE TRY IN EFFORTS...

SO WATCH IT.AND ALWAYS REMEMBER THAT YOUR FRIEND LIST HAS A 'CHECKER IN MILES' ON WHAT YOU TURN OUT TO BE!

Friday, 29 October 2010

WHAT YOUR BODY LANGUAGE SAYS ABOUT YOU!

   I was reading up recently,one of my subscriptions and i thought this is one  powerful stuff.
.....i have often watched it myself and i think i have a right to say that i achieve better relationships ,trying to understand it.

i guess its all about constant practice and no one knows it all.but even when we  fail at it,we all know that if we keep trying,it will get better.And better is what i always want to be ...WHAT ABOUT YOU?



OK...IF YOU ARE WONDERING WHY THE FACE BELOW?....ILL TELL YOU .WOLE SOYINKA IS ONE PERSON I ADMIRE A LOT AND I THINK THE MAN KNOWS HOW TO CARRY OFF THE ACT OF SYNERGISING HIS BODY LANGUAGE IN DELIVERY.HE IS MY PICK ON THIS EXPERTISE.




 ENJOY THE READ:



What your body language says about you


Vocal training can help you succeed in getting more publicity, but don't forget the role body language plays in your delivery.
Body language is the oldest, most trusted language in the world. It was around long before the spoken word and accounts for 55% of what we communicate, while the voice accounts for 38% and the words for only 7%. ..
Before you even open your mouth, people are making assumptions about you based on your non-verbal cues. Are you to be taken seriously or dismissed? Are you warm and friendly or stiff and distant?
Do you smile easily, or do you scowl? Do you walk with assurance and confidence when you enter a room, or do you slip in hoping you won't be noticed? Do you meet people easily, or do you have difficulty in new situations? These are only a few of the things that your silent voice, or body language, reveals about you.

Sunday, 29 August 2010

WAITING TO EXHALE!

EVERYDAY IS A REASON  FOR ME TO WAIT.TO WAIT FOR THAT MOMENT OF PLEASURE THAT ONLY THE RYTHM OF LIFE CAN BRING.

I GUESS IT WILL MEAN A LOT IF YOU AND I CAN TRUELLY THROW OUR HEADS BACK AND LET THE FUN OF BLAZING SUNSHINE,THE COOL OF THE NIGHT MOON AND THE STARLIT NIGHTS GET TO US.


...YEAH,YEAH.THATS WHAT AM DOING RIGHT NOW COS I REALISE AS ALWAYS,THERE WILL NEVER BE A BETTER WAY TO CONNECT TO THE UNIVERSE THAN THIS.


AND DONT LET YOUR MIND TELL YOU THAT THIS IS ENDLESS BLABBER BECAUSE IF YOU LOOK DEEP DOWN,YOU WILL KNOW I SPEAK THE TRUTH!
NONE OF US WILL EVER ELUDE THE LONGING AND INNATE DESIRE FOR MOMENTS SUCH AS THIS...IN THE LONG RUN,WHAT IS LIFE WORTH,IF NOT TO FIND JOY IN THE MIDST OF NATURE'S CALL FOR LABOUR.




OKAY!




I AGREE THAT AM MERRY MORE OFTEN THAN NOT....AND MORE THAN ANYTHING,I WISH THAT YOU FIND  "MERRY" IN YOUR WORLD TOO.
ASK YOURSELF THIS QUESTION:ARE YOU WAITING TO EXHALE OR  HAVE YOU ALREADY BEGAN?

ITS TIME TO STOP AND THINK!

COS IF YOU HAVE GOT MORE TROUBLES THAN "MERRY" THERE SURE IS SOME SORT OF IMBALANCE SOMEWHERE.




 AND SO I SAY,EXHAAAAAAALE MY FRIEND.MAY BEAUTY FIND YOU AT EVERY TURN.
                                                     CIAO! 
 

Thursday, 22 April 2010

WHY IS IT THAT LADIES CAN'T JUST DO WITHOUT MAKEUPS?

I just finished my weekly presentation on Radio and we talked about;Stuffs men think women do and why.
The concept was to let the guys ask questions they seem puzzled about the female folks,and we had a lady in the house come to defend the ladies
the phone line was opened for public participation and these were some of the things the guys came up with,that puzzled them:
1.Why do ladies carry big bags?
2.Why do they 'form' even when they like you( the guys)
3.Why do the not think before they talk when they are upset?
4.why do they feel they are smarter than the guys?
5.Why is it that chics dont like to suffer in life?
6.why can't they just do without makeups?
7.why don't they like sincere guys?
...the list was endless and it was a really hoooooooooott session.so what do you think?...............leave a comment to tell me something.is any of that true or not?lets know you view!...laugh out loud.

Wednesday, 31 March 2010

FINDING SOLUTIONS

Isnt it often funny the way we come to road ends in our searches to answers  and sometimes not understanding just how to hit the home run on the answers that we seek?Yeah,it does seem that when we want solutions to our quests ,and answers to the question marks,they seem to just not be there.
However,i believe that a great deal of the things that we seek to find often lie dormant,waiting for us to find them but because of our inability to; really listen to the pointers , we seem not to get the solutions that we crave.In my experience,i have found that when we become stuck,there is something in our very subconcious that tries to relate to our real selves the solutions of our silent longings.
How many times has it not surprised you that from somewhere deep inside,you have just gotten the answers to some boogie questions that you have been distraught about...
How many times  has it not surprised you that after a rest,you just suddenly realised you knew the anwers all along...
How many times,has it not surprised you that somehow you do have feelings of inkling that points to the discovery that you want


If you indeed have for times felt this way,then you must realise that you indeed can find the solutions at every point in time.It is just a matter of learning and teaching yourself  to:

*Be quiet
*To  relax  so that your soul can set its own search rythm
*Send the right subconscious signals through your mind
*optimise the power of a calming sleep and rest in the midst of a puzzle

...Ok,this does sound like one of the things that are practically impossible  especially when you need that answer real bad.But if you have ever gotten answers at the points where you have given up;when you are not afraid to loose or gain it anymore;when you have decided to damn it all and go to sleep,Then i awaken to your notice,one of the many effective ways that nature helps us in finding solutions.However the key point is...KEEPING AT IT!

Thursday, 28 January 2010

TIPS FOR STORING BRAS...y'all ladies

Storing your bras incorrectly may cause the underwires to poke out after just a few wearings. To keep them from getting twisted, store your bras on a hook in your closet, rather than in a dresser drawer.

Saturday, 23 January 2010

HARD KNOCKS?

I THINK THAT LIFE GENERALLY HAS A LOT OF KNOCKS IT SERVES ALL OF US.
SOMETIMES IT JUST SEEMS LIKE YOU JUST WON'T PASS THE STREAMS OF CHASM DEEP FRUSTRATIONS AND  TOMOIL THAT SUCH TIMES  BRING...AT OTHER TIMES YOU ARE JUST PLAIN POSITIVE...
HOWEVER,ONLY A HEART OF STRENGTH DOES SUCCED.BUT THE SWEET TRUTH  IS THAT WE ARE ALL MADE AND FORTIFIED WITH LEVELS OF ADAPTATION...THATS WHY AT THE END,WE REALISE THAT THERE IS AN END AFTER ALL.
.....SO,WHAT IS THE THEME?...YOU MIGHT ASK.
YOU CAN MAKE IT IF YOU TRY.
THERE IS A HERO IN YOU.
YOU WERE PREPARED TO HANDLE LIFE.
AND YOU WILL SUCCEED.



        JUST LOOK INWARDS,AND DRAW THE INNER STRENGTH
   THAT IS ALL YOU NEED.
  STAY ALIVE!

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MC,TV/RADIO HOST,PRODUCER,CONCEPTUAL ARTISTE,PR PERSONNEL,ENTREPRENEUR AND CLIENT SERVICE MANAGER FOR ELBATIVENI IMPRESSIONS AND CONSULT. Destiny is a deep thinking person and now,blogger.I love to write about Personal Developement and Life's Wisdom. If you are looking for a specified field this may not be your typical blogger but you might still hit a smile point; if you care to join me. My pieces are from series of Life enhancing lessons from my own reality life experiences.You will find that the subjects range from wide perspectives. They are downright ECLECTIC ! - A reflection of how I perceive life. I bet you've got something to tell too.You are welcome to make contributions through comments suggestions, questions and answers. Lets Have fun!