Monday, 1 November 2010

WHY YOU NEED TO KEEP GOOD PEOPLE AROUND YOU!

I KNOW THIS CAN COME OFF AS USUAL,BUT HOW MANY OF US ACTUALLY WATCH TO VERIFY IF WE ARE LANDING THE VERY BEST OF PEOPLE WHILE MAKING FRIENDS?
ITS IRONIC THAT WE WILL READILY WANT TO ADVICE THE CLOSEST YOUNGEST PERSON AROUND US ABOUT THE NEED TO HAVE GOOD FRIENDS ,BUT AS ADULTS WE TEND TO FORGET THE ONE RULE THAT SHOULD SEE US BECOME BETTER PEOPLE.

ITS QUITE A SHORT HAUL FROM BEING AT THE LEAST OF OUR GAMES,.. YOU KNOW?....I SAY THIS BECAUSE 'OUR FRIENDS',WHO ARE REITRATIVELY THE PEOPLE WE HAVE AROUND US CAN HAVE A GREAT DEAL OF EFFECT ON HOW WE TURN OUT.A TRUTH WHICH A LOT   OF US DO NOT WANTTO  THINK TOO MUCH ABOUT SINCE WE ASSUME THAT AS ADULT,WE HAVE  MADE MOST OF THE DECISIONS IN OUR LIVES AND CONTINUE TO MAKE .BUT I TELL YOU...THIS IS JUST  THE "PING POINT"..........YOU ARE STILL VULNERABLE TO PEER PRESSURE NO MATTER YOUR AGE.

OK...IF YOU DISPUTE THIS, TELL ME.."WHY DOES IT MATTER WHEN A CLOSE PAL SAYS SOMETHING ABOUT YOU AND YOU WANT TO REACT TO CORRECT THE IMPRESSION?"

.....BECAUSE THEY MATTER,AND WHAT THEY SAY AND THINK ABOUT YOU IS IMPORTANT TO YOU.SO YOU REALISE  THAT EVEN THEIR IDEALS GETS TO SHAPE YOUR IDEALS TOO.
AND THESE IDEALS ARE WHAT MAKES YOU EVOLVE AND DETERMINE HOW STRONG YOUR CONVICTIONS WILL BE FOR YOU TO SUCCEED.

SO NEXT TIME SOMEONE SAYS THEY WANT TO GET TO KNOW YOU BETTER,THINK TWICE AND VERIFY IF THEY ACTUALLY REPRESENT WH]AT YOU WANT TO BE OR NOT.THIS MIGHT SOUND  IMAGINARILY TACKY  BUT IF YOU THINK OF THE DAMAGE OF ANOTHER  BAD RELATIONSHIP,IT WILL BE WORTH THE TRY IN EFFORTS...

SO WATCH IT.AND ALWAYS REMEMBER THAT YOUR FRIEND LIST HAS A 'CHECKER IN MILES' ON WHAT YOU TURN OUT TO BE!

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