WHAT YOUR BODY LANGUAGE SAYS ABOUT YOU!

   I was reading up recently,one of my subscriptions and i thought this is one  powerful stuff.

.....i have often watched it myself and i think i have a right to say that i achieve better relationships ,trying to understand it.

i guess its all about constant practice and no one knows it all.but even when we  fail at it,we all know that if we keep trying,it will get better.And better is what i always want to be ...WHAT ABOUT YOU?

OK...IF YOU ARE WONDERING WHY THE FACE BELOW?....ILL TELL YOU .WOLE SOYINKA IS ONE PERSON I ADMIRE A LOT AND I THINK THE MAN KNOWS HOW TO CARRY OFF THE ACT OF SYNERGISING HIS BODY LANGUAGE IN DELIVERY.HE IS MY PICK ON THIS EXPERTISE.

 ENJOY THE READ:

What your body language says about you

Vocal training can help you succeed in getting more publicity, but don't forget the role body language plays in your delivery.

Body language is the oldest, most trusted language in the world. It was around long before the spoken word and accounts for 55% of what we communicate, while the voice accounts for 38% and the words for only 7%. ..

Before you even open your mouth, people are making assumptions about you based on your non-verbal cues. Are you to be taken seriously or dismissed? Are you warm and friendly or stiff and distant?

Do you smile easily, or do you scowl? Do you walk with assurance and confidence when you enter a room, or do you slip in hoping you won't be noticed? Do you meet people easily, or do you have difficulty in new situations? These are only a few of the things that your silent voice, or body language, reveals about you.

WAITING TO EXHALE!

EVERYDAY IS A REASON  FOR ME TO WAIT.TO WAIT FOR THAT MOMENT OF PLEASURE THAT ONLY THE RYTHM OF LIFE CAN BRING.

I GUESS IT WILL MEAN A LOT IF YOU AND I CAN TRUELLY THROW OUR HEADS BACK AND LET THE FUN OF BLAZING SUNSHINE,THE COOL OF THE NIGHT MOON AND THE STARLIT NIGHTS GET TO US.


...YEAH,YEAH.THATS WHAT AM DOING RIGHT NOW COS I REALISE AS ALWAYS,THERE WILL NEVER BE A BETTER WAY TO CONNECT TO THE UNIVERSE THAN THIS.


AND DONT LET YOUR MIND TELL YOU THAT THIS IS ENDLESS BLABBER BECAUSE IF YOU LOOK DEEP DOWN,YOU WILL KNOW I SPEAK THE TRUTH!
NONE OF US WILL EVER ELUDE THE LONGING AND INNATE DESIRE FOR MOMENTS SUCH AS THIS...IN THE LONG RUN,WHAT IS LIFE WORTH,IF NOT TO FIND JOY IN THE MIDST OF NATURE'S CALL FOR LABOUR.




OKAY!




I AGREE THAT AM MERRY MORE OFTEN THAN NOT....AND MORE THAN ANYTHING,I WISH THAT YOU FIND  "MERRY" IN YOUR WORLD TOO.
ASK YOURSELF THIS QUESTION:ARE YOU WAITING TO EXHALE OR  HAVE YOU ALREADY BEGAN?

ITS TIME TO STOP AND THINK!

COS IF YOU HAVE GOT MORE TROUBLES THAN "MERRY" THERE SURE IS SOME SORT OF IMBALANCE SOMEWHERE.




 AND SO I SAY,EXHAAAAAAALE MY FRIEND.MAY BEAUTY FIND YOU AT EVERY TURN.
                                                     CIAO! 
 

WHY IS IT THAT LADIES CAN'T JUST DO WITHOUT MAKEUPS?

I just finished my weekly presentation on Radio and we talked about;Stuffs men think women do and why.
The concept was to let the guys ask questions they seem puzzled about the female folks,and we had a lady in the house come to defend the ladies
the phone line was opened for public participation and these were some of the things the guys came up with,that puzzled them:
1.Why do ladies carry big bags?
2.Why do they 'form' even when they like you( the guys)
3.Why do the not think before they talk when they are upset?
4.why do they feel they are smarter than the guys?
5.Why is it that chics dont like to suffer in life?
6.why can't they just do without makeups?
7.why don't they like sincere guys?
...the list was endless and it was a really hoooooooooott session.so what do you think?...............leave a comment to tell me something.is any of that true or not?lets know you view!...laugh out loud.

FINDING SOLUTIONS

Isnt it often funny the way we come to road ends in our searches to answers  and sometimes not understanding just how to hit the home run on the answers that we seek?Yeah,it does seem that when we want solutions to our quests ,and answers to the question marks,they seem to just not be there.
However,i believe that a great deal of the things that we seek to find often lie dormant,waiting for us to find them but because of our inability to; really listen to the pointers , we seem not to get the solutions that we crave.In my experience,i have found that when we become stuck,there is something in our very subconcious that tries to relate to our real selves the solutions of our silent longings.
How many times has it not surprised you that from somewhere deep inside,you have just gotten the answers to some boogie questions that you have been distraught about...
How many times  has it not surprised you that after a rest,you just suddenly realised you knew the anwers all along...
How many times,has it not surprised you that somehow you do have feelings of inkling that points to the discovery that you want


If you indeed have for times felt this way,then you must realise that you indeed can find the solutions at every point in time.It is just a matter of learning and teaching yourself  to:

*Be quiet

*To  relax  so that your soul can set its own search rythm

*Send the right subconscious signals through your mind

*optimise the power of a calming sleep and rest in the midst of a puzzle

...Ok,this does sound like one of the things that are practically impossible  especially when you need that answer real bad.But if you have ever gotten answers at the points where you have given up;when you are not afraid to loose or gain it anymore;when you have decided to damn it all and go to sleep,Then i awaken to your notice,one of the many effective ways that nature helps us in finding solutions.However the key point is...KEEPING AT IT!

TIPS FOR STORING BRAS...y'all ladies

Storing your bras incorrectly may cause the underwires to poke out after just a few wearings. To keep them from getting twisted, store your bras on a hook in your closet, rather than in a dresser drawer.

HARD KNOCKS?

I THINK THAT LIFE GENERALLY HAS A LOT OF KNOCKS IT SERVES ALL OF US.

SOMETIMES IT JUST SEEMS LIKE YOU JUST WON'T PASS THE STREAMS OF CHASM DEEP FRUSTRATIONS AND  TOMOIL THAT SUCH TIMES  BRING...AT OTHER TIMES YOU ARE JUST PLAIN POSITIVE...

HOWEVER,ONLY A HEART OF STRENGTH DOES SUCCED.BUT THE SWEET TRUTH  IS THAT WE ARE ALL MADE AND FORTIFIED WITH LEVELS OF ADAPTATION...THATS WHY AT THE END,WE REALISE THAT THERE IS AN END AFTER ALL.

.....SO,WHAT IS THE THEME?...YOU MIGHT ASK.

YOU CAN MAKE IT IF YOU TRY.

THERE IS A HERO IN YOU.

YOU WERE PREPARED TO HANDLE LIFE.

AND YOU WILL SUCCEED.

        JUST LOOK INWARDS,AND DRAW THE INNER STRENGTH

   THAT IS ALL YOU NEED.

  STAY ALIVE!

YOUR PERSPECTIVE IS YOU REALITY

Over the week i've been quite struck with one of the most important Lessons of life.It Hit home more because its one thing that most of us do know but seem to never apply it i the real sense.It's simple and can be summarised in one sentence:

"Your Perspective is Your Reality"

In truth,often times we have the choice to have the right perspective(and i mean having a positive mental attitude to things)but when life's experiences unfold,we realise that we don't always use the right perspective in our dealings on a day to day basis.

We can CHOOSE to respond Positively even in negative situations, choose to be happy rather than sad, choose to remain optimistic rather than pessimistic and remain in control of ourselves even at the most horrible and darkest moment of our lives.

Perspective simply means 'a particular evaluation of a situation of facts especially, from one person's point of view' if that is true, then you decide to a large extent the way you want to interprets life's events and certainly the way things would affect you. So if you do find yourself on the negative side of the scale you can choose to relate with yourself on the positve.

Your perspective determines your momentary reality and how happy you would be in life. Life does throw us 'rains' of good and evil, happy times and sad times, but it remains up to us how we want to react, plus who we want to be at those times. That'w why I thought... 'Why dont I remind us all of how important it is to have the right perspective'.

Personally I wrote some strategies that can aid us in maintaining a positive perspective. It could be more, and you can add up to the list but just remind us to stay on course 'cos what is going on inside of you is most important.

• Find the strategies that work for you... Prayer, music, meditation...just reach inside your inner self for that tranquility.

• Maintain a right mental attitude. There is nothing as bad as a discouraging mind!

• See opportunities in your challenges...

• Be humble enough to depend totally on God

• Learn to guard your mind. Your heart is your life!

• Remind yourself of God's past victories in your life!

• Have faith...Believe!...Be a man or woman of courage.

Realise that anytime you see beyond your momentary reality, you give God room to enlarge your horizon.