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MC,TV/RADIO HOST,PRODUCER,CONCEPTUAL ARTISTE,PR PERSONNEL,ENTREPRENEUR AND CLIENT SERVICE MANAGER FOR ELBATIVENI IMPRESSIONS AND CONSULT. Destiny is a deep thinking person and now,blogger.I love to write about Personal Developement and Life's Wisdom. If you are looking for a specified field this may not be your typical blogger but you might still hit a smile point; if you care to join me. My pieces are from series of Life enhancing lessons from my own reality life experiences.You will find that the subjects range from wide perspectives. They are downright ECLECTIC ! - A reflection of how I perceive life. I bet you've got something to tell too.You are welcome to make contributions through comments suggestions, questions and answers. Lets Have fun!

Sunday 21 November 2010

360 DEGREE AND THE G-FACTOR

LIFE IS A 360 DEGREE STUFF.IT'S ALWAYS A CYCLE SOME WAY OR ANOTHER.IF IT IS NOT A DAY DAY COMPLETING NIGHT AND  DAY,IT WOULD BE A YEAR  COMPLETING A 365 DAYS CYCLE.IF ITS IS NOT THAT,IT COULD BE  A MAN OR WOMAN GOING FROM  CHILDHOOD TO AN ADULT AND NOW COMPLETING THE DOWNTREND OF REVERTING TO CHILDLIKE WAYS IN THE NAME OF OLD AGE.


ITS A 360 DEGREE STUFF THAT BECOMES MORE INTERESTING IF YOU HAVE FOUND  THE FACTOR THAT MAKES IT ALL KEEP FROM BEING A LONELY EXPERIENCE WITH LOTS OF QUESTIONS AND SOMETIMES, NIGHTS OF 
WAKING UP AND NOT KNOWING WHAT TO DO WITH THE 'YOU' THAT YOU HAVE ON YOUR HANDS AT THAT TIME.


IN A WAY,HUMANS HAVE FOUND  FULFILLMENT IN THE KNOWLEDGE OF THE HIGHER POWER IN THE MIDST OF IT ALL.IN MORE WAYS THAN ONE,THE CONCEPT OF THE G-FACTOR(GOD FACTOR) REMAINS A  MYSTERY THAT MOST CAN NOT ELUDE.NO ONE  PERSON HAS PUT TO REST THE NATURAL GRAVITATION  TO BELIEVE IN THE SUPERNATURAL AND GETTING ATTUNED TO THE POWER THAT SURGES FROM WITHIN.


EVEN THOSE WHO COINED THE WORD 'ATHEISM'  BELIEVE STRONGLY IN THEIR DISBELIEF OF  THE EXISTENCE OF A 'god' OR 'gods',YET USING THE 'NOUN FORM' ,'ATHEIST' TO EMPOWER THE 'GOD' WITHIN THEMSELVES...IN THIS MANNER,THEY BELIEVE IN 'THEMSELVES' AND THEIR CAPABILITIES  AND GIVE POWER TO THE G-FACTOR WITHOUT GIVING VERBAL CREDIT TO HIM.


TRUTH BE TOLD,EVEN WHEN WE DON'T SEE GOD,OUR NATURAL DESIRES TO BELIEVE IN A FORCE THAT SUPERCEDES OUR  CIRCUMSTANCES AND BAD EXPERIENCES CANNOT BE TAKEN AWAY.THIS IS BECAUSE IN THE TALE END, NO MATTER HOW HORRIFYING YOUR EXPERIENCES,YOU JUST  HAVE TO HAVE 'FAITH'.YOU JUST HAVE TO HAVE THAT 'BELIEVE'...IN THE LONG RUN,THAT IS THE ONE THING THAT YOU CAN COUNT ON TO KEEP YOU ON COURSE WHILE THE CLOCK TICKS ITS SECONDS,MINUTES AND HOURS.EVENTUALLY IT BECOMES  DAYS WHICH TURNS TO WEEKS ;ADDS UP TO MONTHS AND GETS TO BE COUNTED AS YEARS.


NOW ,IF YOU HAVE NOTED THE PROJECTION,YOU WILL HAVE NOTICED THAT ALL THE TRENDS ABOVE TOOK A  DIRECTION...IT STARTS FROM ONE POINT,TOWS THROUGH SOME MILE,THEN MAKES A DOWNTREND TOWARDS THE STARTING POINT.



SO YEAH,ITS A 360 DEGREE STUFF AND WHILE YOU ARE AT IT YOU'VE GOT TO REALIZE IT HAS TO BE ONE STEP AT A TIME,ONE MOVE AT A TIME,ONE NIGHT BEFORE THE DAY AND SO ON.ON THE MOTION, JUST REMEMBER TO TAP INTO YOUR SPIRITUAL RESERVE WHEN THE GOING GETS TOUGH AND WHEN YOU CAN'T SEEM TO GET OUT OF THE FEELING OF BEING OUT OF PLACE.IN A WAY,KNOWING HOW TO GET ATTUNED TO YOUR UNDERSTANDING OF GOD  MAKES IT EASIER TO GET ROUND YOUR OWN PERSONAL CYCLES,WITHOUT FEELING 'TOO OVERWHELMED' OR EVEN JUST  'OVERWHELMED'.  BY THE NATURAL UNFAIR FACTORS OF OUR HUMAN EXISTENCE.



MOST PROBABLY,I MAY NOT KNOW WHICH PART OF YOUR CYCLE HAS BEEN DONE ALREADY OR IF YOU HAVE BY NOW,GONE THROUGH THE  180 DEGREE OF YOUR 360 DEGREE.ON ANOTHER SCALE,YOU MIGHT BE ON YOUR 90 DEGREE  BUT I DON'T KNOW IF THAT MATTERS MORE AS MUCH AS BEING "HAPPY" GOING IT AND MAKING SURE NOT TO LET THE PATH YOU TREAD DICTATE YOUR STATE OF MIND WHICH I HAVE FOUND TO BE ONE OF THE GREATEST REWARDS OF OUR LIVING.



IF YOU ASK ME AGAIN,I WOULD SAY THAT THE VERY REWARD THAT WE ACCRUE FROM EVERY COMPLETE SEQUENCE OF CHANGES ASSOCIATED WITH THE  PHENOMENAL EVENTS OF LIFE ARE TIED TO OUR STATES OF MIND.



...THE QUESTION  THEN BECOMES 'WHETHER WE ARE HAPPY OR NOT?'
OWING TO THIS,HOWEVER WAY YOU  CHOOSE TO INDULGE AMIDST THE PHASES OF YOUR LIFE AND THE CHANGING MIDPOINTS OF YOUR CYCLES ;ONLY TRUE "HAPPINESS" CAN GIVE MEANING TO YOUR EXPERIENCES REGARDLESS OF THE DOWNTRENDS.




                 ...IT IS A 360 DEGREE STUFF AND IT MATTERS WHEN YOU'VE 
FOUND YOUR RYTHM!



Wednesday 3 November 2010

NATURAL MEAL?...WHY THAT 'BUKA' MAY BE BETTER THAN THAT 'FASTFOOD' HANGOUT!

It's meal time and without much ado,everyone would be glad to get into  the nearest  drive way of a stomach affair place.In Nigeria when you consider this option,there are two significant places that jump into your mind:A 'Fast food Hangout'(eatery) or the local 'Buka'.


In  this sense,a 'Fast food hangout' would mean any eatery with the glitz and touch up of exclusive fancy topped with spotlight chairs and perhaps little or more grandeur.On the other hand,the 'Buka' being a term coined from the the street jargon of the  regular Nigerian,would mean an ordinary eating joint that caters to your hunger  concerns without necessarily the 'all-out' effort for too much prettiness.


Now here's the real deal.Chances are that you would naturally want to gravitate to the prettier place of grandeur but you do that the next time,consider  the latest trend in recent times that is beginning to popular among the fancy places.


Have you ever had to take away food and eventually, one way or another had to let it end up in the refrigerator?...if you have,you will have noticed  the unnatural artificial colouring in that food while warming up.
Certainly if you are like me,it will get you wondering what else grossly artificial needed to get in there to get you to buy.


Reading up on food additives,will make you painfully aware of the fact that most of these colourings are't exactly
beneficial to your health.However,with experience,if you have been to the 'Buka' too you will have sen that most of food prepared there are often tasty and straight from the African pot without the business of artificial sprucing up the meal to look good.


This bring me to my second reason or point you have to take note of  while on your  stomach venture...."Preservatives".Preservatives are substances used to preserve food from getting spoilt easily.Hence,if the natural shelf life of a food item is one day,you could still have it another day,even yet another.


Now,this also make me wonder..."why should i preserve  a food to have it another day when i can have a fresh one?"...if the word 'boring' doesn't bear to mind then maybe you are a wee bit carefree about your  dining table adventures.And this is another point that is noticeably different at the  little 'Buka' places where food is made in quantums and gets to finish at the end of a sales day.


While it's easy to gulp down the closest meals ,may be you should start noticing these things at your favourite food places so that you can get the healthiest,freshest and most natural  of food when dining out.It really doesn't take too much to know who offers the most real stuffs,if you care to check out little details.


Since i have come to  know how much i love to have an extension of well prepared home made look-a-likes in food places,the choice to stay stuck to my ground for the closest natural offering has come to stay too.So  if you ask me, i would say:"make it as natural as possible,because the healthier the better".


In the end,it's a choice worth your careful observation.And i guess looking out for the places where chefs stay true to 'healthier' is Best.Your favourite 'Fast food' hangout might be staying true to natural but it is up to you to find out.


When next you get on your scout for the  nearest 'belly filler',if it's not  the case of 'when the desireable is not available,the available becomes desireable',....then you need to take your time and find the real deal.Not the cheaters:whether its the small fancy 'Buka' or the grand Looking 'Fast food' eatery.


                                   ITS YOUR FOOD...ENJOY!

Monday 1 November 2010

WHY YOU NEED TO KEEP GOOD PEOPLE AROUND YOU!

I KNOW THIS CAN COME OFF AS USUAL,BUT HOW MANY OF US ACTUALLY WATCH TO VERIFY IF WE ARE LANDING THE VERY BEST OF PEOPLE WHILE MAKING FRIENDS?
ITS IRONIC THAT WE WILL READILY WANT TO ADVICE THE CLOSEST YOUNGEST PERSON AROUND US ABOUT THE NEED TO HAVE GOOD FRIENDS ,BUT AS ADULTS WE TEND TO FORGET THE ONE RULE THAT SHOULD SEE US BECOME BETTER PEOPLE.

ITS QUITE A SHORT HAUL FROM BEING AT THE LEAST OF OUR GAMES,.. YOU KNOW?....I SAY THIS BECAUSE 'OUR FRIENDS',WHO ARE REITRATIVELY THE PEOPLE WE HAVE AROUND US CAN HAVE A GREAT DEAL OF EFFECT ON HOW WE TURN OUT.A TRUTH WHICH A LOT   OF US DO NOT WANTTO  THINK TOO MUCH ABOUT SINCE WE ASSUME THAT AS ADULT,WE HAVE  MADE MOST OF THE DECISIONS IN OUR LIVES AND CONTINUE TO MAKE .BUT I TELL YOU...THIS IS JUST  THE "PING POINT"..........YOU ARE STILL VULNERABLE TO PEER PRESSURE NO MATTER YOUR AGE.

OK...IF YOU DISPUTE THIS, TELL ME.."WHY DOES IT MATTER WHEN A CLOSE PAL SAYS SOMETHING ABOUT YOU AND YOU WANT TO REACT TO CORRECT THE IMPRESSION?"

.....BECAUSE THEY MATTER,AND WHAT THEY SAY AND THINK ABOUT YOU IS IMPORTANT TO YOU.SO YOU REALISE  THAT EVEN THEIR IDEALS GETS TO SHAPE YOUR IDEALS TOO.
AND THESE IDEALS ARE WHAT MAKES YOU EVOLVE AND DETERMINE HOW STRONG YOUR CONVICTIONS WILL BE FOR YOU TO SUCCEED.

SO NEXT TIME SOMEONE SAYS THEY WANT TO GET TO KNOW YOU BETTER,THINK TWICE AND VERIFY IF THEY ACTUALLY REPRESENT WH]AT YOU WANT TO BE OR NOT.THIS MIGHT SOUND  IMAGINARILY TACKY  BUT IF YOU THINK OF THE DAMAGE OF ANOTHER  BAD RELATIONSHIP,IT WILL BE WORTH THE TRY IN EFFORTS...

SO WATCH IT.AND ALWAYS REMEMBER THAT YOUR FRIEND LIST HAS A 'CHECKER IN MILES' ON WHAT YOU TURN OUT TO BE!